'A child trying to communicate'
“Behind every behaviour, whether or not it’s appropriate or dangerous, there’s a child trying to communicate a legitimate need as best they can,” said Dr. Alexis Beauchamp-Châtel, an assistant professor in UdeM's Department of Psychiatry and Addiction and psychiatrist at the UdeM-affiliated Centre de recherche de l'IUSMM.
"And in children with autism, meltdowns and aggressive behaviour always serve a function," he said. "They are trying to communicate something: a want, a refusal, a difficulty in understanding, a request for help, sensory overload, an emotion."
“‘Challenging’ behaviours are mostly a means of communication: they occur when the child has no other way to get what they want or avoid what they don’t want,” added Marc Lanovaz, a professor at UdeM's School of Psychoeducation. “We avoid calling it violence, which has a very negative connotation.”
Outbursts are the tip of the iceberg, the professors said: they’re signs of distress that signal the child’s inability to express their needs, make themselves understood, or understand others.